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Why do Lawyers Make Things so Darned Complicated?

For most couples, getting their finances divided is complicated. Add to the divorce process that usually one member of the couple wants the divorce and the other does not and you have a complicated emotional situation. Often the partner who wants to… Read More
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When Trying to Save Money on Your Lawyer Ends up Costing You More

Sometimes clients tell me they want me to act in a limited role. They will settle some aspects of their divorce alone. That’s fine, provided they understand the issues. When they settle without understanding the ramifications of their actions,… Read More
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Financial Considerations in a Divorce

Lately, a number of potential clients have come in to explore getting a divorce. Some were employed outside the home; some not. Some had high income wage-earning spouses. Some had well-paying job themselves. The common thread was that they had not co… Read More
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What is Appropriate Behavior by Your Attorney?

If your goal is a common sense, harmonious conclusion to your marriage and life beyond, then be certain you select a lawyer who shares that vision - all the time. Read More
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What Should I Bring to the First Meeting?

Many attorneys prefer to give tailored advice during the first meeting with a prospective client. This requires you to be prepared for that first meeting. If your prospective attorney has a website, study the materials regarding divorce on that websi… Read More
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Thinking of Doing Your Divorce Yourself? What Can Go Wrong?

It is enticing to think that you could save the money of paying lawyers to represent you in the divorce. Unfortunately, lawyers also have the reputation of stirring things up, so let’s keep it amicable and keep the lawyers out of it. What can g… Read More
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Feel Like You are Flying in a Cloud?

For some people, going through a divorce is like flying in a cloud. You can’t see anything. It’s frightening, especially when you realize you are the pilot of this craft. What to do? Get good advice. Divorce is a very difficult emotional… Read More
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Using On-Line Legal Services

There are increasing numbers of on-line services that advertise that they can help you divorce for a fraction of the cost that you will pay if you use a lawyer. They will often say that on-line divorces are great for couples who agree on the division… Read More
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Keeping Your Fees to a Minimum

Divorce is a very complicated process that can cost a lot, especially if the parties allow their emotions to govern their decision-making. Here are some cost-cutting ideas. Don’t use your attorney as your therapist. Most divorce lawyers are kno… Read More
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The “Good Divorce”: Clients MUST Be Full Partners with The Attorney

If your lawyer is honest, she or he will tell you at the first appointment that more than 98% of all divorce cases settle by negotiation or mediation. Knowing that you are all but certain to settle and not be involved in a trial of your issues, it ma… Read More
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