When you call our office for an appointment, you will speak with a staff member who will check for conflicts (to determine if we have advised your spouse or someone close to your case in the past and cannot represent you) and the jurisdiction (can we deliver the service you are requesting in the location where the case will be filed).
Our staff members who handle these calls report that some potential clients want reassurance that our lawyers are “sharks”. Though one of our attorneys has the surname of Sharkey, we do not see ourselves as sharks.
A shark is defined as a predatory fish that eats or bites everything smaller than them and sometimes bigger creatures. Sharks prey on others without regard for the consequence.
What our potential clients are really asking is whether our attorneys will support them at this difficult time. Will they explain the clients’ options? Will they be familiar with the law? Will they help the client build the courage needed to stand up to their spouse during this difficult and scary time? Will they be strategic in the advice they provide? Will the attorney provide a good value for the money that this divorce case is costing them?
We believe that the answer to all these questions is yes! But does this make us sharks? We don’t think so.
We understand that potential clients are frightened. They are also angry and would (in an ideal world) like some revenge against their spouse. It is understandable that the image of a shark protecting them is appealing. So, when I hear the comment from my staff that a potential client with whom I am about to meet has heard that I am a shark, I am not offended. I understand that they want someone who will educate them in the law and the practical issues of their case and help them protect themselves and their children, if they have them. They want someone who will help them achieve a good, long-term outcome. The attorneys in our firm all approach every case with these goals in mind.
We also approach every case with the goal of helping our clients achieve realistic expectations. The questions that are running through the clients’ minds are:
We approach every case by listening and hearing your concerns and objectives. Then we do our best to help you achieve those objectives, without hurting yourself and your children. We do our best to protect you without biting the other side.